My
GPa Jewell died the morning of July 19
th. It was a long time coming and it was time for him to go. He had been not doing very well for about 7 months prior, unfortunately I can't help but to think that it was his own will not to live. He did fall in January and as a result of it he had broken ribs and ended up getting pneumonia. He overcame those obstacles, but ever since then, he didn't want to eat and all he DID want to do is lay in bed. It was no life for him.
Mixed emotions on his death, but relieved. As I was growing up, he made a life in San Diego, CA. He lived there until I was 25, when my Grandma died. He decided to move here to Utah and spend more time with us. I jumped all over it, as much as I could! With him traveling between Oregon and here, it was tough trying to coordinate to see him more. But I am grateful to have had the last few years to even try!
A couple things I will never forget about him are:
1) He loved to FLY. I have enjoyed the stories he has told and the opportunity for me to hear these stories. He could talk and talk and talk about his flying days. I was lucky enough to hear him speak a couple of times, once to my 5th & 6th graders during my first year of counseling. They asked him some pretty tough questions like "Did you kill anyone?" or "What was it like to shoot down someone?" His answer was very stern, "We will not be talking about that." I can't imagine what he went through being a fighter pilot during WWII. He flew all sorts of planes and has set foot in many countries! I am grateful for his determination, dedication, and heroic efforts to protect me and my freedom!
2) He loved my GIRLS! He definitely, without any doubt loved my girls. I remember when we were trying to get pregnant the first go around, he was so concerned about me and he always would tell me he knows there are some little babies for me and that he was hoping and praying they would come soon. Needless to say, the moment we told him we were pregnant with twins, (I kid you not) he was probably about to PEEE his pants! When he came to see them for the first time.....PRICELESS!
3) He loved ME! While he was in the George E. Wallen Veterans home, I would visit him frequently. Every time I walked in his room, it was amazing to see how a man lying in bed, looking like he could go any minute, would light up with a surprised look on his face then it would turn to a comfort look of thanks, just for stopping by.
A few weeks ago when I was visiting, really touched my heart. I was telling him good bye and that I would see him again in a couple of days and he said to me, "You are truly beautiful. Just absolutely beautiful!" I was deeply touched that a man on his death bed could offer such words of sincerity and mean so much.
He had a long life, 87 years for that matter. Rest in peace, GPa! Good bye for now, I will see you soon!